A so-called “Christian” website is now offering advice to married men urging them to only look at their wife’s face while having sex “begrudgingly.”
Why? Simple: Because that way husbands don’t have to “tolerate refusal” from a wife. See, if you don’t look at her face, you have no idea that she’s not consenting to the act.
BiblicalGenderRoles.com also advised women who don’t choose to engage in sex with their husband willingly to:
“Fake it until (you) make it.”
The writer, identified as Larry Solomon also posted this steaming pile of horse dung:
“You also need to realize that whether your wife knows it or not she needs to have sex too. If you don’t have sex with your wife at regular intervals, even sometimes when she is not in the mood but consents anyway, you will open yourself to temptation.”
Solomon said men should think of their wives as Medusa, the mythical Greek monster who could turn men to stone if they caught a glimpse of her face:
“I know you love your wife, most men love their wives. But sin is ugly. Your beautiful bride’s face becomes ugly during this sinful time that she is grudgingly giving you sex as she grimaces wanting you to ‘just hurry up and get it over with.’ So like the men who could not look at Medusa’s face otherwise they would be killed, realize that if you look on your wife’s face when she is displaying a sinful attitude toward sex it will kill your sexual pleasure and may actually make it much more difficult for you to achieve the physical connection and release that you need. Sometimes we have to work around the sinful behavior of our wives and this will be one of those times.”
It should be noted that Solomon and BiblicalGenderRoles.com are the same ignorant jackasses who have also claimed that “there is no such thing as marital rape.”
And now allow me a moment to respond to Larry Solomon: I’m also a Christian, but when a woman, including a married woman, says she doesn’t consent to sex and a man forces her to, that is called rape. There is nothing moral or Godly about rape, and nowhere in the Bible is such an abomination condoned within the institution of marriage. In other words, you can write all the crap you want, but it won’t change a thing in the eyes of the law, or the eyes of God.
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